I pressed my Amen Learn's uniform for school. I would have him wear pants and white tshirt. He will forego with the white polo because the classroom where he is in, has not enough ventilation. There is a shortage of electric fan. What worse, Amen is seated where the fan could not reach.
I can imagine the ordeal of staying in a non-ventilated area for almost six hours.
I thought of buying an electric fan to donate to the school so that Amen will be ventilated.
But my budget is not thinking of what I am thinking. Hahahahahahahahahaha!
I thought also of sending him to school wearing sando.
Of course Amen Learn and everybody is not approved of the idea.
He is amenable to white tshirt.
But not to this tshirt that I pressed for him.
It got crampled due to our tug o war |
All the while I thought he likes this tshirt. It came from our church. Perhaps he used to like it but not anymore.
When I asked what's wrong with the shirt. He pointed to the printed statement on it.
I was puzzled. I asked him if what is wrong with being special child of God.
He argued, "Ikaw ba Papa, gusto mong tawagin kang special child?"
I realized where he was coming from. I insisted still, although my being would like to roll in laughter. Hahahahahahahahahahaha!
My son is having a "politically correct" drama. Hahahahahahahaha!
To him, the term special child, whether by God or by anyone else really mean a "not so special child." And perhaps that is also how other people around think thus, he literally threw the shirt just not to wear it.
And since I mentioned about politically correct. It is better to know its meaning in case we do not know it yet and how to exercise it.
Note: the data below is taken from wikiHow (the how to manual that you can edit)
The expression "politically correct" came about in the 1970's and was intended to mean "inclusive." It referred to the use of language that would not cause an individual of any demographic (social or cultural) group to feel excluded, offended, or diminished..
It now seems to have been redefined by those who prefer an exclusive culture and dominance for themselves or their group. The distortions were made popular by comedians who observed the change in U.S. culture toward more inclusiveness and the struggle many people had in breaking exclusionary habits.
Steps
- 1Be careful when addressing groups or talking about others. Use language that would not make any person feel excluded, diminished, or devalued.
- 2Avoid language that addresses only one demographic group unless it is intended for that group only, such as using "men" when you mean "all people". Accurate descriptions are the essence of 'political correctness'.
- 3Avoid titles that are exclusionary, such as "Chairman" (use "Chairperson"); "Fireman" (use Firefighter); and "Stewardess" (use "Flight Attendant"). The use of titles that exclude persons of a different gender or other social groups is usually acceptable when addressing an individual, as in a business setting, where Mr. Smith is the CEO, and you are introducing him as "Mr. Smith, our Chairman of the Board".
- 4Avoid expressions that are derogatory with regard to physical or mental abilities, such as "handicapped" or "retarded". Instead, use first person language, such as "person with a disability" or "person with Down's Syndrome". People have disabilities, they are not defined by them. In many cases, simply addressing the person who has mental, physical, or other challenges in the same terms as you would address anyone else is the ideal solution.
- 5Avoid overly-cautious racial descriptions that can be offensive. For example, say "African American" only when talking about Americans who are the descendants of African Slaves. Other Africans know what country they're originally from. Example: A person from Egypt is Egyptian American. In the case that you are unsure of a person's citizenship, "black" and "white" are acceptable terms.
- 6Avoid the use of religious terms when speaking to a group that may include people who belong to different religions (ex., saying "God Bless" at a local event). The exception here is in the context of describing either academically or referentially specific characteristics of such a group, as in "Evangelical Christians hold certain beliefs...", or "Jewish people commonly recognize Yom Kippur...".
- 7Be sensitive to the inferences people may read in to the words you choose. Many common expressions have roots in a less inclusive social climate, and only time and education can completely eliminate them (ex., if you are asking if a girl is taken, asking "Do you have a boyfriend?" would be politically incorrect, as it makes them exclusively heterosexual. Instead ask, "Are you seeing/dating anyone?"). By the same token, each cultural group has equal protection from offensive generalizations and slurs, not just a certain ethnic group or gender.
- 8Respect every individual's right to choose the language and words that best describe their race, class, sex, gender, sexual orientation, or physical ability. Don't get defensive if someone rejects language which dis-empowers, marginalizes, confines, or diminishes them. The ability to name is a daunting power; individuals should play a role in selecting words to describe themselves.
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